Escaping the cycle of abuse

“My father was a pastor in another denomination. He would preach about love but we were not receiving that love at home. He was physically abusive to our mother and us. We also struggled financially and we would only have one meal a day.

Later on, I worked in a company and I met a man who I started a relationship with. We got married and everything was going well until my husband became abusive. He did not love and care for me. He often told me that I was useless. He once kicked me and beat me so badly that I did no see a way out of my abusive marriage. I wanted to get drunk and throw myself in front of a moving car.

My friend invited me to attend services in the Universal Church. In the church, I was taught how to pray and to fight for my life through the power of faith. During that time, my husband and I separated.

Through my perseverance in the chains of prayers, my life started changing. My finances improved and my salary was doubled at work and I could provide for myself and family.

Although I witnessed great improvements, I was still broken inside. I felt empty. In one service, the pastor spoke about forgiveness and that touched me. I decided to forgive my late father and ex-husband. I had freedom inside of me.

The Campaign of Israel was introduced and it addressed those who wanted to become children of God. I wanted to have relationship with God, so I participated. I prayed and read my Bible everyday. I sought the Holy Spirit at every chance I got. I took my envelope for the campaign and on the last day, I fulfilled my vow. I understood that I could not only make a monetary sacrifice but I had to commit my life to God. I felt inexplicable peace after fulfilling my vow. From that day, my life changed completely.

I started my own property business that is doing extremely well. I am also an investor. I have three houses and two cars. Despite everything I have achieved, the Holy Spirit remains my greatest treasure because without Him, my life would be meaningless,” said Bongiwe.